Dating and scoring with chicks is not rocket science. Sexual attraction is a predictable thing, and you must know the subtle things that go on in a girl’s mind when she meets you for the first time. Why do some guys score consistently while others bat .100? They are not THAT good looking or rich. Right? We are not talking about celebrities here. So what is it then?
1. Learn the Gift of Gab. Practice talking to many girls a day so you can practice. If you were learning golf, you would go to the driving range every chance you had. If you were learning to fly, you would get up in the air as much as you could afford. This skill is no different. Learn to open up to total strangers. You might find you enjoy it. It will pay off.
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2. You need to become positive in your outlook and personality. The Law of Attraction (LOA) states that “Like Attracts Like”. It really is true, so you might as well get used to it. Find the BEST self help training there is and learn it. It should teach you how to set and get goals. If it doesn’t do that, drop it. The one I do does all that. If you feel negative about dating girls, that is what will happen. Nothing. A positive inner consciousness will bring great results. Trust me. Remember though, it has to be a REAL system that works. 99.9% do not. Be careful. Caviat emtor (buyer beware).
3. Learn to be funny around the ladies. They love humor, and this is a skill that can be learned. You don’t have to be Jim Carrey, but you just have to able to make them laugh a little. Get books, take a stand up course, and watch comedians. Humor is a real ice breaker. I remember seeing a cute girl rapidly texting on her phone. I (honestly) said to her, “God, that is the fastest texting I have ever seen.” She laughed, and that was the start. I asked her out after a while, and it went well, if you know what I mean. Funny and natural lines win the day. By the way, I am not Tom Cruise, by any means.
4. Get comfortable with rejection. It happens, and it’s part of the game. And it IS a game. It is rare though, I have found. Treat it like you were a salesman. He knows that it might take 10 prospects to make the one sale which will get the big commission. The 9 he loses are just steps on the way to victory. All attitude.
5. Relax around the really hot ones. They are just girls, not God. They eat and go to the bathroom like we all do, except they were born with great faces. Treat them like any other girl, and you will be fine. They do get approached many times a day, so you will have to be at the top of your game. Do not start with the beauties. Work your way up by practicing with the ordinary females, and then go for the gold. Like the Olympic athletes do.
And remember, girls are like buses: If you miss one, there is sure to be another coming down the road soon.
